Are you fascinated by SM and BDSM and kink but you have very vanilla sex life ?
Let me explain what I do!
................................I am a professional dominatrix Kora .......................................
✔ Some people don’t understand the heavy pain masochism ....
it is simply your brain chemistry
There is studies that have been done about how pain affects our brain and one of them is endorphins
So when you are subjected to physical pain there are a lot of things that happens to your body.
One is that you start getting building up endorphins and when you build up endorphins there is a point where It´s kind of like a little bit of a high.
You experience and its similar to something like the runners high a lot of long -distance runners also experienced these endorphin rush.
.............. If you play with somebody who’s experience and know how to get you there, the point when you experience this high......................
I never get heavy handed immediately but really gradually like ramping up the pain so you can achieve that threshold. :)
✔ Helplessness and the release of control this is a fundamental side of BDSM and Power Exchange !!!
When something is being done to your body that you have no control over you can put you in this really helpless state and
That is a good way to experience it as pain.
You know if somebody is doing something to your body
that you cannot make stop, you know that sense of helplessness and lack of control can be exciting ,
as somebody who is the submissive.
So there is a diference from the masochism and submission.
Because those are not mutually exclusive so somebody might can be definitely can be both.
Masochistic and not be submissive, so they can be really in the sensation of pain and the endorphin release and these kind of things,
but they just want somebody to administer it to them not because the want to overpower them
but its just a sensation that they want to explore so that’s just masochism without the submission
You might not be into pain at all but the idea of taking pain can be exiting to you, because you enjoy doing things that against your will
or something that the Dom really wants to do to you and you want to take it whether or not you or not you its particularly something you enjoy or not .
But you enjoy the act of doing whatever your misstress tells you to do.
So that’s is the submissive side of it so it can be separate, you can enjoy both of it , you can be a masochist and submissive
But as I say it could be separate as well.
✔ One more thing is flow state :)
You can reach when your´re focused completely on one thing in the awareness so to speak so you’re in the meditation you can shut the whole world out
and you’re completely focused on this thing in the moment at hand and heavy pain will definitely put you in right there.
If you’re focused completely and meditating on your breath breathing so you can take the pain like the next slash when
You’re focused on your body to relax it so the next slash won’t be as painful you’re focusing on maybe bringing kind of awareness ,
you know into your mind like kind of meditation,
so you can kind of transcend the pain that is a flow state and there’s a lot of mindfulness
and health benefits to being enough in a flow state and being in a heavy pain session over time like extended period of time it can definitely put you there
I can give you trophy marks and bruises. Maybe yo are somebody who enjoys having marked and maybe you don’t enjoy the pain itself
but being marked by your Mistress to have this achievement like this accomplishment and there is evidence of it.
you get to earn these brides and marks that might be something so that people might be into even though maybe they’re not really .
Into the pain itself they are so elated an so feel connected to there Mistress once they have this man that ,
they get to kind of secretly were not so secretly carry around on their body
to remember that moment by that intense bonding so those are things that potentially somebody can be into as well
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